LIFE DIARY: Being Yourself..?

"Just be Yourself."
The most common phrase said to all people growing up unless you are Asian but that is a whole different story to talk about later.

Life is about, well- almost anything you want it to be because it is your life. Most people say things without thinking about what the other person wants which is pretty normal/common or in some cases- rude. Life can have many meanings but it just depends on what YOU, as a person, would like it to mean.

Being yourself can have many positive and negative things.
For example, work. The environment you work in has rules which everyone usually abides too or not but the main thing is that you should be respectful of your piers, co-workers, customers, and more. Another things is, Family gatherings. For some people, it's about fun and enjoying time and for others, it's about image. YES, Image. I don't like that word when it comes out of my parents mouth when I went to family or any gatherings with them but that's just how things were for them.

For all the people who wear makeup, this topic is always brought up.
I find it hard for people to understand that maybe, we just want to wear makeup. In a sense, society has brought upon this, "ideal," look that we have to appear a certain way to get noticed by others and this can mean wearing a ton of makeup to be noticed or even being someone we are not because nobody wants a person like- US.

It's hard being yourself when you are not appreciated for being, "different," in society or even with your own family. The worse part is when you don't like yourself for being- YOU and that can be very depressing and make your self-esteem very low. No one should feel like that about themselves but the other thing is, EVERYBODY should be appreciated for existing.

PICTURE TAKEN BY KOU MOUA - FADED PRODUCTION CREW

When it comes to my circle of friends/family that I hangout with (Which is pretty small since I am a loner), I love it that I can be myself with them all the time (and my LOVER. He's the exception because he should love me for me anyways so of course I will be myself). When we do hangout, we can all be ourselves which is usually on the line of, "Crazy and Super Honest." What I mean when I say, "Super Honest," is that we would just say what we think and want because we have no boundaries with each other and don't get offended easily. I think it's because we are all probably the same or just know each other very well. Maybe I should just show you all in a vlog later/soon so you all can see just how, "HONEST," my group of friends/family.

PICTURE TAKEN BY KOU MOUA - FADED PRODUCTION CREW

If you are not in a relationship, You should take time to Find Yourself but if you are in one, You partner should like/love you for you and you should not feel obligated to be someone you are not. I mean, everyone uses the bathroom and everyone farts. You should not feel BAD if you fart in front of your partner because I'm sure they fart too unless they are like Peter Griffin from Family Guy who took 18 years to let out his first fart gas.

Not being in a relationship is pretty good because you can take time to find yourself without having to worry about anyone but yourself (and family depending on your relationship with them). That means, focusing on self goals, travel, and other things. That doesn't mean that being in a relationship, you can't enjoy those things too but you might have less to think about and less things to give you a headache. I'm just saying from experience.

On another note, it is good to know common sense/manners.
I believe that common sense will save everyone's life whether they speak a different language or they are just a baby/toddler. Not only will it save lives in person but also EVERYWHERE ELSE like online, driving (Especially), and even to animals. Sometimes, you find/see/notice that there is just that one person that seems just seems like- They just don't have no common sense which makes you wonder with a lot of anger/brain power, "How were they raised?" Oh, we have all wondered that. No lie~.

You will always find yourself changing everyday and its not bad but it can be scary.
Change can be good or it can be bad but that just depends on how you take it in you life. It can either be a long time before you get used to change or be short but never forget that you are a big part of change. Although we are all just living life, the life we live can change things slowly through time or even have a huge effect on someone who you just walk by.

Never forget that you are apart of the world and YOU can always make a big difference.
Gosh, I feel like this post/topic kind of got off the idea/title for the post..? I mean, I'd like to address a lot of things about being yourself but I think the most important thing that I can say is that YOU should find friends who you can connect with without having any backlash to how often you see each other or more.

That is all for this post though. I am truly sorry that this post is kind of- weird, but I'm glad that I got to address this topic because I've noticed that with all the social media and everything that is happening around the world/country, being, "you," has become an issue to life and especially, anything government related but that is a WHOLE new topic.

I'll just end it here with a, "Bye&Good Night."

HUG&LOVES,

Frany

i.Fairy Lumos Orange | REVIEW

TIME FOR A REVIEW ~

Today's Review are as the TITLE STATES:

i.Fairy Lumos Orange Circle Lenses

I have always wanted to try these lenses since a lot of people I know wear them and have them so it's kind of exciting and nice to have them now and they are just great, comfy, and I can't just wait to tell you all about them!!

Let's Get Started!!!

Here are the Circle Lenses in the case. If you want to know how they look like in the bottle, please refer to my other post on packaging before this post.

LINK: http://itsfrany.blogspot.com/2015/01/new-circle-lens-packaging-lensvillagecom.html

These lens are very large and before you put them on, make sure you soak them for 10-16 hours in solution before you wear them to make sure they are cleansed. You DO NOT want to wear them directly out of the bottle because the liquid in the bottle is not solution but chemicals to keep the circle lenses fresh and cleansed. From just seeing these lens, they seemed to look pigmented and very large. Although I have worn other large circle lenses, i.Fairy is known to have very large circle lenses.

AFTER WEARING THESE LENSES AFTER 1 WEEK:

Comfort:

OH MY GOSH!! I love these lens! They are actually very comfy and nicely pigmented. They make my eyes feel like they can breathe and it's probably because these lenses have a 55% water content. Even though they are bigger, I did not have to put drops in my eyes but I do it anyways to make sure they don't dry out.

Color:

They are pigmented like I said earlier. They are notice able in the day and even in light rooming. With natural lighting, they seem to look a bit more natural but nothing looks very natural if it's enlarging your eyes. Wearing by themselves with just eyeliner makes your eyes look large but yet simple in my opinion.

Enlargement:

They are great for enlarging your eyes! These have a diameter of 16.2 and with the black outside ring, they make a great enlarging choice. I do like that they are not brown lenses because sometimes, brown lenses just blend in besides the Princess Mimi Chocolate Brown and ones that look like that.

OVERALL:

I highly recommend these lenses to people who want to try new lenses and to new lens wearers. They are a bit big but you cannot tell the difference once you have them in your eyes. They are very comfy and with a water content of 55%, they let your eyes breathe and for me, THAT IS A PLUS!!

 I've been trying to update my YouTube and Blog for you guys but I can never come up with anything to do so this year, I'm just going to make videos and blog about random things that I do and what I have learned and stuff. It's going to be completely random and if you guys like it, Let me know by commenting on my videos and post. I also have been updating on twitter a lot so my twitter is official open now. The link to my Twitter will be up soon and I thank all of you who have followed me since I posted my first video up until now.
Hopefully, I can be more productive for you all and keep updating and uploading ASAP!!

ASK&TELL: Organization - Messy V.S. Clean

ASK: How do you organize your makeup?

Let me be honest... I have no specific way!!!

As funny as that sounds, I don't really don't organize and usually, I just put things together if they make sense like a grocery store. Frozen food should go with frozen food and dairy products with other dairy products. If you come to my personal bedroom, it looks trashed and messy but to be honest, that is actually how organized I am. Some people like to be messy intentionally and in my room, my clothes and makeup area are intentionally messy most times because for me, it's how I tend to my things. my undergarments and other stuff are clean and neat but not my clothes and makeup.

My makeup is together 4 different ways:

Pallets, lip wear, eye wear, and face powder/liquids.

I usually put all my pallets together in a box because they are bigger, longer, and easier to distinguish. Even if it's a lip wear pallet, it's in the box because it's a pallet. It just makes it easier to find too for myself. For lip wear, I usually put all my lipsticks, lip gloss, lip concealer, lip balm, and lip tint together. Eye wear consist of eyeliner, mascara, eyelashes, liquid liner, gel liner, single eye shadows, eyelid tape/glue, and eye shadow primer. For the face, all my blush, foundation makeup, and my makeup remover.

The reason I separate like this is because I follow a very easy and basic routine for my makeup which is:

 - Cleanse the face with a makeup remover

 - Foundation: Liquid and matte

 - Eye shadow: Pallets/eye shadow, primer, liner, mascara and lashes

 - Blush and setting spray

 - Lip wear

So everything is easy and always together when needed and easy to put away at one time too. Kind of my way to do it and Everyone has their own way of doing it so no worries in following me, someone else, or anyone. Make it comfortable to yourself because then you'll know where everything is and easy to find.

Everyone is different, OF COURSE, but what is Messy? Clean?

Depending on the person, messy can be clean or neat for someone like me.
I like my clothes messy when in baskets. My bottoms like jeans, shorts, skirts, and leggings because it's easier to pick what specifics I want to wear then mess it up again and organize again. Same with my makeup. Even though they are separated, into boxes, drawers, or bins, they are placed in the box all randomly so I do have to search for them, which is fine. For others, they probably can't stand it being dirty/messy all the time and so the make everything neat in order, organized nicely in lines and so forth, which is perfect okay to. 

There is no actually way to be specific about organizing but don't let it get out of hand where you can't see the floor anymore and there are piles and piles of clothes, makeup, or just stuff all around.

For reading and I will see you next time ^^

♥XOXO♥