Everyone has their own little addictions and habits.
Here is a small list of things that we both favor and enjoy....MINES: Candy&Chocolate, Anime, Manga, Drawing, Final Fantasy Games, and Sleeping
HIS: World of Warcraft[WOW], Food, Sleeping, Staying home, and Teasing till I get angry.
I get really annoyed when someone does the same thing too many times and doesn't know when to stop. Kind of like when you someone tickles you and it's funny the first couple of times but then after a while of telling them no more and they keep doing it, you get angry and they act like it wasn't their fault. I am pretty easily annoyed after doing the same thing too many times.
My Fiance, Naiae - [Na- ay], he does that a lot and and usually it's during when he plays WOW(World of Warcraft) and I really need him to do something too. When things don't usually go his way when he's playing games, He get's angry too. Sometimes, I feel like destroying his laptop when he acts like this.WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS TODAY?!!
We are also trying this thing where we don'try not to go out as much but when needed, we will. It is winter and I really don't want to go out driving in the snowy roads. Sometimes, it will be good to drive on but the at night if it's too cold, the roads slush will freeze and turn into ice. That is the worse of it all THOUGH!!!
I really don't like waiting forever to do something because I feel like the day is wasted but as a guy, he feels like it's okay to stay home all day and I can't handle that. I'm an active person and LIKE TO MOVE AROUND or do something. I don't mind the sitting around and being lazy but sometimes it get old and I get bored easily from just sitting on the laptop all day or have nothing to do besides check or update my Facebook, Tumblr, Instagram, or my blog.
I don't know if it's a guy thing but he enjoys just sitting around and being lazy. He can do that all weekend and I can't at all. When we do go out, he doesn't like it sometimes because we either take too long or he just doesn't want to be out. Plus, most times when we are out, he just makes everything seem so bad like, It's the end of the world all the time and KILLS THE MOOD ALL THE TIME!!!
How do I get over this?
Well, to be honest, I don't.....
Some people ask how I easily get over it and I don't. I don't forget or anything. What I do is live to compromise with it. He can have his game, lazy time, and stuff because he likes it. I just have to make sure I plan out my things accordingly so that I tell him ahead of time and at night, He can play games all night or until he's tired.
Just be honest when you can especially when in a relationship. It took us a long while before we got use to each other habits and addictions. I don't support his WOW game because it seems like he's always on it like how he thinks I have too much makeup and clothes which is true. You kind of have to accept it and also learn to limit each other. It never gets easier to be honest but you can always compromise with it which makes it easy for you to be honest about how you want the other to know how you feel about it.
This was something that takes time to get use too and nothing over night.
Especially in a relationship because you want to make sure it's understood on both sides. Don't just assume that they know if you don't tell them. I mean, it's romantic if they just knew and always figured it our easily. BELIEVE ME, I ALWAYS DREAMED THE DAY THAT MAY HAPPEN and once in a while, it really does but don't expect it every time though.
There is never a right or wrong answer about this because maybe your addictions/habits meet half way with others but always remember that it might not and you should also be considerate about that too. Take you time in any relationship like friendship or love. You may never know what others like or may not like/really dislike.
Thank You for Reading. I hope this was useful...
I know everyone has their opinions and stuff about this but this is just how I deal with it in my everyday life with friends and family. Feel free to leave you opinions in the comments and I like to know how you deal with it. Thank you again.♥XOXO♥
P.S. I was actually really hesitant to answer this question...